What if you stopped trying to "find" yourself?
Jul 24, 2025
Have you ever felt like you were supposed to have it all figured out by now?
This week on the podcast, I sat down with the incredible Vera Milan Gervais—TEDx speaker, bestselling author, multi-business founder, and mom of two grown kids—and she flipped that idea right on its head.
Vera shared her raw, funny, and deeply insightful journey through motherhood, entrepreneurship, identity, and what it really means to evolve through life. From launching multiple companies to raising her family while traveling the world, she’s lived a big, beautiful life—and she’s not done yet.
But the part that stuck with me most?
She said, “There’s no point in ‘finding’ yourself, because once you find something, you stop looking.” 🤯
We talk about:
- Navigating business while raising little kids
- The emotional whiplash of unexpected life changes
- Giving yourself permission to evolve (and make mistakes)
- Why you should stop trying to be a “good girl” and start trusting your gut
This one’s a must-listen if you’re in a season of transition or feeling pulled in a million directions.
